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You’ve been asked to deliver a eulogy how to write it may be weighing heavily on your mind. When asked to write a eulogy for someone, you may panic, but remember that it is an honor, and that you are doing it for someone you were close to whose memory you will always cherish. A eulogy allows all of the attendants of the funeral to remember the deceased, so make it serious but also humorous, whatever feels right.

Before writing the eulogy, talk with others who were close to him/her. They may know things about his/her history, or something else that could be important to the eulogy. Also remember to include information such as his/her age, education, career, hobbies, loved ones, accomplishments, past homes, or anything else the person was proud of.

Now that you’ve been chosen to present the eulogy, how to write it is the next step.  Start the eulogy by outlining some talking points, meaning what you definitely feel should be included in the eulogy. Then, keep expanding your talking points from there until you’re content with it. When writing the eulogy, be sure to write whatever comes from the heart. Include jokes you shared with the person who you’re writing the eulogy for, as well as anecdotes, quotes, poems, or anything else you remember fondly about him/her. Write as much as you want, and in the next stage, the editing stage, look for anything that may not sound right or needs to be altered. Next, say it out loud once or twice to make sure you feel good about speaking it in public.

When delivering the eulogy, bring notes as guidelines for what you’ve planned to say. If you get slightly off track, just be sure to stay to the topic of your loved one. When nervous while delivering the eulogy, picture the person’s face, and hopefully this will put your mind at ease. Remember, do not worry about the audience. They are all there to remember the person they cared deeply for too, and will instantly appreciate your time and effort. If you often get emotional, have a back-up person ready to deliver the eulogy for you if your emotions get the best of you.  A eulogy, and how to write one is something that no one wishes to ever have to know, however when the times comes you may be grateful for the ability to honor your friend or family member in this way.